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Postpartum Self-Care

Postpartum Self-Care

This article is all about you…remember her? You’ve just done something amazing, and you’re still doing it and it’s time to take care of your amazing self. Mental and physical well-being has never been more important. So let’s learn how to take the best postpartum care of the “you” that everyone seems to need so much of right now. Thank you Mommy’s Bliss 360 expert, Shelley Kemmerer, for helping us take that much-needed moment just for ourselves.

The uncertainty of becoming a parent meets an undeniable truth: the postpartum phase demands more than just adjusting to a new life. It requires the absolute best of ourselves—both for our babies and for our wellbeing.

Becoming a parent is a life-changing experience, a journey that carries profound happiness, but also pressing responsibilities. It's an initiation into a world of scattered sleepless nights, countless moments of wonder, unexpected worries, and boundless love. The postpartum phase, especially, requires a unique focus—not just on the newborn but also on yourself. This period, filled with hormonal shifts, emotional roller-coasters, and physical recovery, challenges even the most resilient. It reminds us of the importance of seeking support, of creating moments for self-reflection, and of the critical need for self-nourishment. The postpartum phase is complex, demanding self-compassion, patience, and self-investment. It's a time to recognize our vulnerabilities, embrace our newfound strengths, and cherish the profound transformation we undergo.

The undeniable importance of restful sleep:

New parenthood often arrives with a host of anticipation. One that inevitably turns true is the altered state of sleep. During the early stages of parenthood, restful nights may seem like a rare luxury. However, this isn't about simply missing those long hours of uninterrupted sleep, it is the quality of the sleep you are getting and what you can optimize that is within your own control. As the Office on Women's Health highlights, sleep disturbances can profoundly affect one's mental wellness. With many parents today lacking the extensive familial support systems that their relatives may have had in the past, the challenge of nighttime parenting becomes more palpable.

Adjusting room temperature to maximize melatonin production, minimizing blue light exposure before bedtime, and establishing a calming bedtime routine can make those brief intervals of sleep feel a bit more rejuvenating. It's important to find a sleep rhythm and routine that suits your household while taking into account household support and number of nighttime feedings.

Embracing a community of support:

The modern age, while filled with rapid technological advancements, can increase feelings of detachment. Social media, which promises connectivity, sometimes only heightens the sense of isolation, especially during critical life transitions. The postpartum period is one such time when societal pressures and personal apprehensions can become overwhelmingly isolating. Many women find themselves trapped in a silo, feeling disconnected even amidst a sea of online ‘connections' while yearning for more in-person socialization. The essence of our humanity lies in our inherent need for genuine, face-to-face connections! But this journey isn't meant to be walked alone.

Support groups, therapists, or community gatherings can provide both emotional solace and even some practical advice.

Physical spaces and real conversations, even in this digital era, play an irreplaceable role in holistic healing. In sharing and listening to stories, we not only find practical solutions but can start to feel more supported and validated in our own postpartum experiences.

Multifaceted self-care approaches:

In the hustle of new parenthood, amidst the endless diaper changes, feedings, and sleepless nights, self-care is often pushed to the background. The whirlwind of responsibilities can cloud our own needs, pushing them to the farthest corner of our minds. Good mental health—defined by the Office on Women's Health from the Department of Health and Human Services as the ability to handle daily stresses and reach personal goals—is paramount in the postpartum phase. This not only influences our ability to nurture our newborn but also lays the foundation for personal growth in this transformative period.

For the most comprehensive self-care, moms should be both proactive and reactive. It is more than just reacting to emerging challenges—it’s about pre-empting them. Anticipating the highs and lows and equipping ourselves with coping mechanisms can be game-changing!

Proactive self-care might involve:

  • Enrolling in a postnatal exercise class
  • Diving back into a favorite hobby
  • Immersing yourself in activities that provide mental clarity and emotional balance on a regular basis.

It's the consistent routines we set for ourselves that pave the way for long-term stability. On the other hand, reactive self-care is a bit more spontaneous

Reactive self care might involve:

  • a warm bath after a particularly grueling day
  • ordering takeout to give yourself a cooking break
  • scheduling an additional counseling session when feelings become overwhelming

Reactive self-care jumps in to respond to an immediate challenge, similar to replacing a flat tire. Together, these two forms of care, intertwined, create a holistic approach to wellbeing, ensuring that parents are equipped to handle whatever comes their way, offering both resilience and recovery in the journey of early parenthood.

Nourishing your postpartum body:

Physical recovery post-childbirth can be an intense process that requires a lot of self-compassion, self-awareness, and professional (clinical) guidance. It's an alarming reality that, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, roughly 40% of women avoid postpartum care due to various barriers: cultural differences, insurance issues, limited family support, economic constraints, and so forth. Nourishment is one of the cornerstones in recovery. The body demands a balanced blend of nutrients to heal, rejuvenate, and in cases of breastfeeding, to nourish your newborn. Hydration, too, takes center stage. Both these elements play a dual role – ensuring the mother's wellbeing and providing optimal care to your baby.

Pre-planned meals, stocked nutritious snacks, and accessible hydration points can simplify this aspect of postpartum care. If you live in a dual-parent household, you can create a flexible schedule whereby one parent pre-plans & preps meals for the week and the other parent refills reusable water bottles to store in high-traffic areas.

Ask your healthcare provider if you have specific intake questions or concerns.

Rediscovering personal joys amidst parental duties:

Postpartum life can sometimes become an all-consuming vortex of baby care routines, where days blend into nights and one feeding seamlessly transitions into the next. Amid these rhythms, there lies a risk of losing touch with oneself and the passions that once defined us.

It is especially important to occasionally step back and reconnect with the things that bring you joy. Simple pleasures – a brief walk, a casual chat with a friend, or practicing a favorite hobby – can offer respite and perspective.

Rediscovering these activities not only serves as a bridge to one's pre-parenthood life but also enhances the depth of understanding and patience needed in these new roles. These coveted moments, though brief during these transformative stages, have a multiplier effect. They not only reinvigorate the pre-parent spirit but also provide a necessary ‘mental reset’, ensuring that parenting, while a significant part of one's identity, doesn't overshadow everything else. Engaging in these personal joys ensures a more balanced emotional landscape, benefitting both parent & child.

The societal landscape of postpartum challenges:

Many parents today grapple with challenges amplified by inadequate family-friendly policies and evolving work dynamics. The rising costs of childcare paired with inflexible work schedules makes early parenthood even more challenging. Societal norms often place undue expectations on new parents, creating an illusion that we must balance personal, professional, and parenting roles without skipping a beat. It's disheartening that despite our connected world, many parents report feelings of loneliness and detachment. Systemic pressures, coupled with individual challenges, underscore the necessity for robust support systems and personal resilience strategies. Engaging community efforts, fostering dialogues about postpartum experiences, and creating inclusive spaces for parents to connect and share can be vital in shifting this narrative.

The postpartum phase, while teeming with challenges, also offers unmatched joys and profound insights. This unique chapter in one's life provides an opportunity to redefine oneself, not just as a parent but as an individual with evolving aspirations, dreams, and innate needs. Each day brings subtle learnings, from understanding the nuanced cues of your brand new baby to appreciating the immense strength and adaptability we possess as humans. These lessons, sometimes wrapped in moments of exhaustion or tears, often lead to moments of deep clarity and gratitude. As parents, we are not merely surviving each day; we are crafting stories of resilience, forging deeper connections, and shaping a new life.

Embracing comprehensive self-care, nurturing support systems, and maintaining a keen awareness of personal needs ensures a smoother, more fulfilling journey into the beautiful chaos of parenthood.

Every challenge faced head-on, every smile exchanged with the little one, and every supportive gesture from loved ones adds depth to this transformative experience.



Office on Women's Health from the Department of Health and Human Services 

This site is intended for informational purposes only and does not provide medical advice. Please consult your physician or other health-care professional.

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